You know that I love trees, but for the past two weeks, I have been secretly cursing our HUGE maple, walnut, cherry and two apricot trees because my husband is lying on the couch with a surgery attached Achilles tendon.
Guess who is raking all the leaves this year? Moi, me, meine! But not only is raking the leaves on my mind this year, I am also taking care of 3 children 5 and under as well as being the hands and driver for my crutch using, boot wearing husband!
I was overwhelmed with my leaves, until two magnificent women came into my life… today my 69 year old mom and our neighbour came over to rake up all the beautiful leaves… and yes they were beautiful again once they were all lined up and waiting for the next snowfall.
Thanks fellow leaf gatherers. “Air hugs!” (As my oldest son calls them!)
Every single place I have lived and loved has had fabulous trees! There is something about old gnarled trees with leaves floating along their branches. The beauty of how trees shelter us in the summer and then lose their leaves so that we can get more sun in the winter.
As humans, we try to make things “straight”. Our homes have 90 degree walls, our mattresses, coffee tables, shelves and chair have them too! We like things smooth and straight.
I often do this with my situations and relationships, I like them to go in a particular way, I don’t enjoy any rough edges. Sometimes, I feel very uncomfortable.
But, God created the things of this earth crooked, bend, gnarled and beautiful. I need to strive to be more like our trees in our backyard – knowing I am God’s creation, perhaps “imperfect” in the world’s eyes, but beautiful! I need to trust Him more.
This post is for my Gamers: Danielle on 29th Cres., Angela in Edmonton and Rea in Spain!
Do you want to be a Gamer?
In the past two years, I have played this game 4 times now! (Three times with groups of women and once on my own.)
I have learned about my food addictions, my habits (healthy and unhealthy), my love of exercise and my need for water and sleep.
Mostly, I have learned that I need a community of women, like an old-fashioned quilting bee, to have around to inspire and encourage me. Rea, Angela and Danielle have been these women for me. We have played the game twice together (almost!).
We have learned about each others flossing habits, run ins with rice pudding, setting goals, feeling less fluffy, how to post on facebook so that everyone doesn’t now you are smooching your husband, BB’q sardines, playing for money, what to do with leftover food, and RIP 60.
I have learned moderation with food and unhealthy habits and how to replace these things with healthy habits, exercise, sleep and water! I could talk about this game all day long! I love it!
Need a little inspiration in your life? Check out the book. GAME ON!
Anyone who knows me, knows that I am not a morning person. My pattern has been work late, exercise in the evening, sleep in when I can… and when I say sleep in, I mean til 10am or later.
The birth of 3 children aged 5, 3 and 1, have slowly lead me to become a morning person. I now regularly wake up between 5am and 6am, depending on which
boss boy needs me.
Don’t tell any of my immediate family members, hence we might bring on a heart attack, but I actually enjoy my mornings now.
The boys and I eat breakfast, look out the window at the birds/snow/leaves, play some lego and we hangout together at our extra large borrowed Ikea table.
I even get a little bible study in, where I can read, reflect, pray and be thankful. What a way to start a day!
My hubby, Sexy Neck, tore his Achilles one week ago. He had surgery and is now recovering at home. He is a man with crutches. He cannot carry his coffee cup or his cereal bowl. He can’t put his foot on the ground. He can’t go pee without grabbing his crutches. He can’t shower nor do stairs easily.
Do you know what he has decided to do? Laugh. Yes, laugh! He is probably one of the wittiest people I know.
He laughs that he is officially “old” with his old man/weekend warrior injury.
He laughs because all he does all day is heal his connective tissue and grow facial hair (for Movember)!
He laughs because he moves from the couch to the bed and vice versa. When you ask what he did during the day, he will come up with some funny joke.
I laugh because he has decided to shave his head just because he wants something to do!
I think we should all be a person with a crutch who has time to hear their children’s many stories and give “fake” gold medals and flowers to their wives when they do the laundry or load the dishwasher.
I love you Sexy Neck in good times and in bad!
I have had red short hair in Switzerland, blond long hair in Germany and now long, black hair in Canada.
I am calling this my rocker hair.
It reminds me of an amazing mother, woman, guitar player/singer named Rachelle van Zanten and her amazing locks of hair as she dances, sings, strums and works to save our environment!
Thanks for the inspiration Rachelle! http://www.rachellevanzanten.com/
Plus it covers up all the grey! Nice! Rock on…
I am not a baker nor a chef, really I am not much of a cook, but I can follow a recipe. I think that everyone, including myself, should learn how to bake bread.
There is nothing like kneading some dough, rolling it out, watching it miraculous rise then smell it cooking in the oven. This experience becomes wondrous with two little boys at my side!
We recently attempted a couple of loaves of whole spelt bread. My boys loved “kneading” (AKA crushing, pulling, smushing…) the bread. JC made a house and our middle one, CC, made a blob.
We ate a few pieces then observed their transformation into hockey pucks which made it into the garbage the next day.
My cousin’s husband at http://notsospanish.wordpress.com/ bakes bread for the family EVERY week, so I guess I will leave this task up to Sexy Neck.
We actually sent these delicious photos as Sexy Neck was sitting at the hospital waiting for surgery on his Achilles. Sorry honey, we forgot that you had to fast the whole day!
I have started wearing long sleeved shirts so that I can wipe snot everywhere I go.
Sexy neck told me the other day that he thinks we have gone through a milk jug of snot in the last 2 weeks.
I agree and so does my shirt!
Today, I double dog dare you to take a good look at those people around you. Not the people on the TV, but the people you live with, live beside or are in the line-up with.
You will be amazed at what you will see.
Here was my view from the “sick” couch a few days ago. I may have to spend more time on the couch.
Two boys, a new game, talking, laughing, playing… BeAutiFUL!
My eldest son went down with the flu mid-October. Our “never-sick” middle one went down next, then baby OC was the last to get the flu. By the flu I am talking fevers, vomiting, in bed wanting Mama.
This flu, otherwise know as our first “Kindergarten Bug” has now affected me, Papa and Nana.
I think I told you earlier that I don’t do well when I am sick. Sickness brings in all sorts of issues that I don’t really want to deal with my “trying” to control things, my “perfectionism” and not wanting to have to ask for help. Sickness, for me, also brings into a time to go deeper into myself by having lots of time to lie around on the couch (sometimes in a fever-induced fog, but most times there are moments of sanity)
First, I wanted to let you know that I am still here. These are the “whites of my eyes” as my mom and dad would often say when they would try to wake me up in the morning.
Second, here is a photo of the current concoction of medicines that our family is currently taking. And I am a naturopathic-loving, mid-wife birthing, nature hugging woman who is pretty careful at what she puts into her body.
Third, what am I learning this sickness: slow down, don’t do too much, enjoy the faces of my family and bring in those people around me who encourage/enrich my life, pray often and out loud and trust God. He is the author of all things!
And again, Be a human being, not a human doing! Just be enough Joanna!