No schedule.
No plan.
No structure.
Just being.
Together as a family.
Eating ice cream EVERY single day.
Getting haircuts.
One day.
At. A. Time.
Precious.
Just being.
As I grew through grade school, University, professional life and motherhood, my dreamer’s heart began to fade. My mind became prominent in my life. Other’s words about myself and my life began to permeate my being. My brain and other’s opinions became my driving force in what was ‘right’ for me. It became the motor and the compass.
Now, I am beginning to dream again. I have found freedom to look beyond my current circumstances and be filled with wonder of ‘what if?”.
Full on, life-changing, nourishing dreaming.
I am surrounding myself with other dreamers and asking people about where they see themselves in five years if time nor money were a consideration. I am dreaming every day and encouraged greatly to hear other’s dreams.
My decision to dream combined with daily hard work and discipline has propelled us to become gypsies for a week, open our home to families affected by cancer or needing hospice care, reach my person health goals, allow our tall eight year old join a competitive gymnastics team and create a list of dreams I have looking forward to the next two years.
Be a dreamer.
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This post is dedicated to two incredible parents CC and TH. We were talking about their son’s dream of playing NHL hockey. CC said that he needed to stay in reality, but I want to encourage this whole family to dream. Remember the dream you had of owning a home and how you made it happen. Dream of playing NHL hockey or professionally in Europe. There is nothing holding this young man back. He has two hardworking, dedicated parents who would help him in any way. He has an outdoor backyard lighted rink with boards and lights! Wow! He has a love and heart for hockey that just oozes out of him. There is no barriers for this young hockey player.
Dream Zach, dream! It will propel you forward and take you to places you never thought possible. Your dreams may change but I hope you never stop dreaming.
Life is about finding moments that fill you and make you smile.
Yesterday was one of those moments.
A waterfront, outdoor piano.
My three boys and our wonderful friend and piano teacher.
Smiles and claps from passerby’s.
A man joining us to play some Chopin.
Steven Tyler, from Aerosmith, playing on the same piano later in the afternoon.
I am very proud of my outdoor piano players.
What moments will make you smile today?
I walked out the door yesterday for four hours.
Walked into our old church to celebrate an incredible colleague’s life.
A woman who was a mom, wife, teacher, friend, aunt… an incredible human being, filled with inner light and love.
She also had the best shoes and rings!
Her students’ sang the birthday song in the most creative, loving and loud way possible. (I know because I was across the hall from her!)
While I was gone, Sexy Neck played with the boys.
Putting water in the fish pond.
Tidying up the yard.
Eating snacks.
And creating with white printer paper.
Sexy Neck has to be one of the most creative people that I know.
He can take any normal object and create something beautiful and inspiring!
Yesterday it was paper…
Created into rescue vehicles. We now have a roadway on our kitchen table and some very happy boys!
Thank you Sexy Neck for seeing the extraordinary in the ordinary.
What ordinary object today will create an extraordinary for you or the people you love?
Have a wonderful Sunday Funday and rest day!
I am not sure who to credit this photo or these words with, but I believe that this is the definition of success for me. I saw this on facebook and it struck a chord deep within me. I heard a loud ‘gong’!
I believe I need to embrace all these words below the iceberg to be ‘Success’ful.
Risk.
Late nights.
Struggles.
Failures.
Persistence.
Action.
Discipline.
Courage.
Doubts.
Changes.
Criticisms.
Disappointments
Adversity.
Rejections.
Sacrifices.

For the first time in my life I am living outside my comfort zones EVERY DAY. I know my dreams and freedoms live OUTSIDE OF MY COMFORT ZONE.
Did you know I was afraid of horses? My heart skipped a beat today as I lead this large animal with my son on his back. I was afraid. Did that stop me?
Absolutely not!
Success for my son.
Being ‘success’ful outside of my comfort zone.
When our first born was wee, Sexy Neck and I made the decision about which physical literacy activities our children would do: swimming, skating (yup, we are Canadian!) and gymnastics were a must.
Building blocks.
Healthy skills.
Lifelong physical movements.
Six years later, we say goodbye to another season of gymnastics.
It ain’t cheap, but it is worth all the five cent. (We don’t have pennies here anymore.).
Watching our three year old gain confidence.
Hearing our five year olds laughter and seeing his amazing flexibility.
Sitting in awe as our eight year old flips through the air with or without a harness.
Daily choices.
Become yearly decisions.
And lifetime habits.
Raising healthy, strong, physically and mentally literate boys.