Overwhelm? Have you ever felt it?
Our family has lived the last few years in overwhelm with a plethora of multi-faceted situations
Death of multiple family members and then grief.
Moving.
Full on jobs.
Changing jobs.
Boys growing up and the adjustment that takes.
Health issues.
And now here I sit today miraculous typing on my computer about what shifted for me.
No longer overwhelmed.
No longer feeling that my life is overwhelming.
Here is what changed:
I knocked off some “big chunks” in my life.
First and foremost, prayer, the bible, thoughts about God and weekly church services became a priority.
Second, I cleaned up my sleep hygiene. My phone went into the bathroom. I started a wind-down time before bed and I only brought my book and Sexy Neck to bed with me. (I wrote about this back in February.)
Third, I started moving. I have a good friend that is a physiotherapist that says “motion is lotion”. I really do believe that by simply walking, I helped myself move in a positive direction. It also have me time to think and ponder my life. In February, I started off with walking for 30 minutes per day. I added on cycling in May and my husband and I started a 30 minuted 3 times per week boot camp two weeks ago. I cannot tell you how much better I feel. This big chunk hasn’t been easy. You can see where I was at a few months ago here. I am proud to say I have been again walking around in a tank top this summer and feeling confident (and safe!) to be me.
Lastly, I am sure you have read this before, but part of my journey on this earth has been to be a “human being” rather than a “human doing”. I once got a trophy from my book club for being an “Actionator”. Yes, I make things happen and relaxation is not my strong suit! haha. My last big chunk has been to really notice things and attentively listen to what people are saying, especially the boys. This has been huge for me. I have felt calmer and more peaceful simply by looking and listening.
(Sidenote: One random other thing that didn’t fit into any of my four points that helped me a ton was I decluttered my front entry. You know that part of the house that everyone sees when they come to the door? Mel Robbins in a podcast about decluttering mentioned this and it has been a GAME CHANGER! Weird, but true. So satisfying!)
Spiritual life.
Sleep hygiene.
Movement.
Immersed in the world around me.
Those were my four big chunks that helped me shift so that I can now focus on the little chunks (work/life balance, emotional health, decluttering my home, meeting up with friends, fixing a watch battery that has been sitting on my dresser for years, organizing neighbourhood block parties… plus jumping into a new job on August 1st.)
What chunks would you like to knock off to start your healing journey?
Have a wonderful Wednesday and love what you do.
xoxo Joanna
"Be" ENOUGH 